In my view, if you can't happily picture yourself married within a year, you're not in a position to date.Third, once you decide that you are ready to date, look to God's Word to decide the kind of person to date, and evaluate potential dating partners on those criteria, rather than relying primarily on the world's treatment of ideas like "attraction" and "chemistry." I wrote at some length on this in my article, "Brother, You're Like a Six." For you busy singles with time for only one mildly irritating column per day, the summary is this: Pick a potential dating partner with an eye toward godly manhood and womanhood — with an eye toward who would make a good husband or wife, defined by those characteristics esteems in His Word, not the ones Hollywood likes.After all, I’m not getting any younger, and I don’t want to wait forever!A plethora of books, blogs, advice columns, and magazine articles have surfaced in the last few years, attempting to give Christian young women some helpful tips for snagging a godly guy and achieving that much-desired state of wedded bliss.“Call him up and invite him out to coffee! “Just because you are the woman doesn’t mean you can’t give the guy a nudge in the right direction. “When it comes to finding a husband, if you snooze, you lose!Every week it seems, I encounter young women who are wrestling with thoughts like, Should I try a little harder to get a guy’s attention – maybe create a really nice profile of myself for an online dating service?Or spice up my Facebook page with some photos of myself in a swimsuit?Women, on the other hand, are frustrated because they want men to take initiative, to lead. Don't believe everything you hear; Christ-centered women still believe that God assigned respective roles to the sexes. Initiating the relationship It takes a man to be an initiator.
Are you generally humble and teachable, and do you respect authority? Men are frustrated because they don't understand what women want from them.Or, if they do have a clue, men feel the expectations are too high. How should Christian men and women move toward deeper friendship, possibly even engagement and marriage?Head lice are very common among Christian men, especially Pentecostals.Although it is a normal and natural blessing from God to have head lice, you should certainly wash your hair before your date if only for the reason to avoid the temptation of putting your arm around the young lady while lifting to scratch your head.