They have security and connection through this men.But ask yourself if its really worth it, losing your pride and dignity for something so lowly and vain.As a reasonable, logical person, you might look at how he’s acting and assume that he must want a divorce — otherwise, why would he treat his loved one so badly? If this is how he treats his wife, do you really think he’s going to treat you better?!50% of marriages break up after the discovery of infidelity.Source If therapists and drinking buddies got a dime every time they heard the words “he said he wants a divorce,” they’d be swimming in money.But married men who cheat usually don’t want to leave their wives.
Even if a cheater does leave his wife for his side chick, do you think that means he’s changed? Unfortunately, men often cheat because they have an opportunity to.
Men who find out will think you’re an easy target for unwanted attention.
In fact you may be just the latest in a long line of ego boosts that he obviously needs. If you are (un)lucky enough to have him eventually leave his wife you would always wonder…
And you’ll definitely never see him on birthdays and Christmas. You will tire of hearing ‘if only I’d met you 10 years ago.’ 9.
You find yourself going out less and less with friends, in case he can spare an hour to see you. Forget planning a nice romantic weekend away, there will always be some reason why it doesn’t happen. The awful cocktail of emotions when (not if) someone finds out about your affair – fear they’ll tell his wife, shame and, weirdly, some small relief.