They patiently waited, hoping the women they desired would quit lamenting over “jerks” and wake up to see what great men they were. I have had the privilege of being part of the recovery process with thousands of Nice Guys. I’ve watched single guys find the love they desired. Your book helped me jump into the manager position.Only to hear something like, “You’re such a great guy. I’ve seen men live up to their potential in their work and careers. I can’t say enough about how you have opened my eyes to how unconscious I have been.”"Dr. Some say they do, others say nice guys win in long term relationships.I honestly don't know but I wanna know what OT think.What, do you expect girls to be able to look into your head and find all those chivalrous scenarios you've played through your mind over and over again but will never find the balls to actually employ?How are you going to stand up for your woman when you lack the bravery to even say hi?
There are women out there who are "users" -- just looking for a sucker to take advantage of.You guys have way more experience than I will ever do. I think that saying doesn't apply to being nice, per se.I think it has more to do with the fact that confident, physically attractive men have more options available to them, and thus do not make themselves as 'available' to individuals of the opposite sex.The whole meeting people thing isn't that hard, guys - you just have to do stuff with other people.Take up a hobby, join a group, get a group of people together to go spelunking every month, whatever floats your boat.