Guys like it straight to the point and they have yet to develop the levels of telepathic powers that women seemed to have evolved. Guys are just not as observant as girls If you changed your eyebrows shape, you’ve done your hair slightly different, got a new dress or painted your nails a different colour, please, don’t be upset if he doesn’t notice. Nothing is guaranteed to annoy a man more, than unwarranted emotional blackmail.It doesn’t mean that he doesn’t love you; men just aren’t as good at noticing things like that. Using the old ‘you don’t care about me’ ploy, except when it’s valid, will get you nowhere.Guys aren’t very good at guessing, and reading what you think in your eyes is not really their thing.
For us book nerds, understanding fictional characters is a piece of cake. After he has his first kiss one night with his openly gay best friend Angus, and then falls for Brandy, a sophomore girl, Will isn’t sure of what he wants, let alone what Brandy and Angus are feeling. There are no dumb questions when it comes to talking to us. We want to defend ourselves because our goal is to be respected independently.Boyfriends make the best of friends and amazing lovers, but it goes without saying that sometimes (okay, a LOT of the time) we think men could do more.Familiar phrases spring to mind; 'He never makes enough effort', 'he's always with his friends' and 'he never notices me,' but as they say, boys will be boys.So we decided to take a different approach in getting him to understand by creating the ultimate women's wish list (that we hope will make things easier for man and womankind).And while this is no lesson on how to treat a lady it's a pretty accurate guide into what us girls are really thinking.